If you’re looking to expand your bedroom adventures, experimenting with different sex positions may be just what’s needed to spark some fun in bed. Just be sure to do your research first to avoid unpleasant surprises or pain! Mashable spoke with several adult performers with extensive hands-on experience with all kinds of body arrangements who were more than happy to provide their insights below, including tips for successfully trying out different sex positions.
Experimenting with new sex positions is an exciting and pleasurable way to fulfill your sensual fantasies, but be wary of diving right in without consulting with your partner first. Be sure to discuss all aspects of each position as you explore them – be sure to explain any kinks or nuances, why you like or dislike it, any limitations your or partner have and be willing to adjust the position if needed.
Misha Montana: When exploring new sex positions, it’s always best to take it slowly. Overestimating yourself or the abilities of your partner could leave you both in some pretty uncomfortable or even painful positions if overestimation happens, so start slowly by trying only one or two new positions per session – that way both parties have ample time to become acquainted with these different sensations and pressure points of each new position before adding in more complex ones.
Sabien Demonia: Remember that certain sex positions require significant muscle and tension, so ease into them gradually. Patience is key; some couples take longer than others to reach orgasm – don’t rush things. Also keep in mind that certain positions may work better than others – for example the Zeal position can help women who struggle reaching orgasm while missionary poses are less effective for men who often prefer the Doggie Style position.
Discovering different xxx positions is also a fantastic way to surprise and please your partner without even realizing it! Just ensure to communicate with them about which positions you’re exploring, and inform them what works best for you so both of you can enjoy the ride together. And if anything starts hurting or becoming unpleasant, don’t be shy about speaking up; no harm should come from subjecting yourself to pain just for some kinky thrill. Sex should always be about finding out what each individual and team member can accomplish together – good luck!